General Questions

1.What is the purpose of the site?

We are an international dating site. Throught our service, you can get to know an Asian lady and establish a relationship for romance and marriage.

2. What is the difference of membership categories?

There are three grades of membership on BMlove.com: Free, Gold, and VIP. For more info, please see the following chart:

Features Free Members Gold Members VIP Members Creat my profile Show interest Publish my photos Read letters from paying members Reply letters Send initial letters   Allow free members to read my letters   Consultation for international marriage

3. How to upgrade my membership?

To apply for gold or VIP member, please login, then click the "Upgrade Membership" on left menu.

You can use PayPal, WesternUnion, and MoneyGram payment solution.

4. Why should I consider a woman from Asia?

I know many of you are tired of the western singles scene. You know, insincere women who like to play games or expect material gifts. In contrast, Asian women have greatly different cultures and traditions which affect the way they approach relationships. In their mind, it is family, husband and kids that take place No.1 in their hierarchy of life values that can be found in most of the ladies' ads - a desire for love, romance, integrity and honesty, and strong desire to create a close family. Moreover, the beauties in our website are completely modern and very well-educated people with wide interests. In essence, they offer a mix of old and new which is incredibly difficult to find in the women of the more Western, highly industrialized nations. In addition, Asian women rarely lose their figures as they age. I know that is a new concept to many men who are looking at this.

5. How to get more attention from ladies?

At the step of registration, you need to provide accurate and complete information. If you show little information in your profile and description, it is difficult for you to attract ladies.

Besides, it is important that your profile includes photos, which will attract more ladies.

6. What about age differences?

It's hard to say exactly. If you are friendly and sincere, almost any of the women listed will correspond with you. In looking for marriage, our experience is that ladies originally from the China frequently accept men 5 to 25 years older than them.  Much of this depends on you as well, as the age range is not set in stone. The most important thing is how you present yourself and how friendly and sincere you are. Even if you are not in the ideal age range that the women have written for her interested mate, you should send her a letter anyway. You have nothing to lose, and you have a potential lifetime of happiness to gain. Please do not be overly concerned about your age as being too old. The women you meet with personal introductions usually have a completely different attitude than your imagining. You may find a lady who is as many as 30 years your junior to accept you.

7.Are the women serious?

We try our best to protect our customers from dishonest individuals, inaccurate profile content or offensive behavior. If we find any fraud profile, we will close it directly. If you find any inaccurate profile, please do not hesitate to inform us.

8. What are the important Chinese customs I need to know?

9. What about calling them on the telephone? 

We don't recommend contacting her by phone until you have established contact through either a letter or e-mail. Just like you probably don't like it when someone calls to try to sell you something over the phone, these girls are not going to be comfortable talking to a complete stranger (and in a personal manner) that they know nothing about. It is best to introduce yourself first via letter or email. If you prefer to make contact via telephone you can suggest in your letter that you would prefer to continue the correspondence via telephone. In the letter you can request the girl's telephone number. (even if you already have it). If she grants you permission to phone and anticipates your call you will have better results. She can also advise when is the best time for you to call so you will not create friction at her home or work by calling at inopportune times.

10. Can I include an Email address when I write a mail?

No problem. Our express mail system doesn't block any contact information. But, if the lady's English is poor, she still depends on our agency's translation service. Your Email address will be meaningless for her.

11. I have other questions, what should I do?

You can directly contact us and we will be happy to answer your questions. Our customer service team will respond to your request within one business day.   Contact us.